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A Bunch Of Millennials Lay In A Coffin And Talked About Their Ideal Funeral

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“I would like to be buried in, like, a Tommy Bahama shirt and look like the chillest dude that ever lived on this Earth.”

Elite Daily gathered a bunch of millennials to lay in a coffin and think about the purpose of life.

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It was a little freaky how comfortable the coffin was.

It was a little freaky how comfortable the coffin was.

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And also, just, like, confronting your own mortality is pretty scary.

And also, just, like, confronting your own mortality is pretty scary.

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But it's also a great Instagram opportunity.

But it's also a great Instagram opportunity.

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A Heartbroken Little Girl Sang Fetty Wap's "679" At Her Goldfish's Funeral

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♫ And when it’s over, I press rewind though ♫

Everyone grieves differently, so when this little girl's pet goldfish Nemo died recently, she dealt with his loss the only way she knew how: by singing his favorite song — Fetty Wap's "679," of course — at his funeral.

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22 Tweets About Funerals You'll Feel OK Laughing At

People Built A Shrine And Held A Funeral For This Dead Cockroach Someone Forgot To Clean Up

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RIP Rosie Roach

On Dec. 3, Michael Alvard, associate professor of anthropology at Texas A&M University shared a photo of a dead cockroach, one he named Rosie Roach, to his Facebook.

On Dec. 3, Michael Alvard, associate professor of anthropology at Texas A&M University shared a photo of a dead cockroach, one he named Rosie Roach, to his Facebook.

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"There has been a dead cockroach in the anthropology building's stairwell for at least two weeks. Some enterprising person has now made her a little shrine," Alvard wrote. By that evening, the memorial had grown.

"There has been a dead cockroach in the anthropology building's stairwell for at least two weeks. Some enterprising person has now made her a little shrine," Alvard wrote. By that evening, the memorial had grown.

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Interesting.

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And continued to grow.

And continued to grow.

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Right into the night.

Right into the night.

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People Gave This Movie Usher A Beautiful Memorial At The Theatre Where He Worked For Decades

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R.I.P. James Loader

Friends, family, and fans held a beautiful memorial for a legendary movie usher in Toronto, who died Jan. 3 after working at the Morningside theatre in Scarborough for decades.

Friends, family, and fans held a beautiful memorial for a legendary movie usher in Toronto, who died Jan. 3 after working at the Morningside theatre in Scarborough for decades.

James Loader worked as an usher at Morningside and other Scarborough theatres for 55 years. He was 83 years old and worked his last shift just just days before his death.

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This Mushroom Burial Suit Turns Dead Bodies Into Compost

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“This will help create a cultural shift toward a cultural acceptance of death and our personal responsibility for environmental sustainability.”

As you near death, consider this new option for your burial. Coeio, a New York-based company, is rolling out a new burial product that may appeal to the eco-friendly — the Infinity Burial Suit.

As you near death, consider this new option for your burial. Coeio, a New York-based company, is rolling out a new burial product that may appeal to the eco-friendly — the Infinity Burial Suit.

Coeio co-founder Jae Rhim Lee dressed in the Infinity Burial Suit.

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The Infinity Burial Suit uses mushroom spores to help the body to decompose.

Coeio co-founder and artist Jae Rhim Lee first came up with the concept of an eco-friendly burial over five years ago, said Lee in a 2011 TED talk.

Lee started developing the concept around the same time that studies were released exploring the number of environmental toxins introduced into our bodies through the lining in canned foods and other products.

The Center for Disease Control reported in February 2015 that people are exposed to about 265 environmental chemicals, including heavy metals and pesticides, that are later released into the environment as a body decomposes.

Lee began testing strains of edible mushrooms that could eat a decomposing body and break down those toxins released during decomposition.

Lee began testing strains of edible mushrooms that could eat a decomposing body and break down those toxins released during decomposition.

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Lee has studied permaculture and learned about mycoremediation, which is essentially growing mushrooms to clean the earth, she told BuzzFeed News.

She was moved by this practice that she learned in a mushroom cultivation course with Paul Stamets, the founder and president of Fungi Perfecti which is a private company that promotes the cultivation of high quality gourmet and medicinal mushrooms.

"I was inspired by the idea that mushrooms are the master decomposers of the earth and thereby the interface organ," she said.


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19 Tweets About Death That Are Way Too Funny Not To Laugh At

This Family Embalmed Their Loved One To Look Alive At His Funeral

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“We wanted to remember him as he was.”

A family in mourning often shows grief in surprising ways. But the family of Fernando de Jesús Díaz Beato, a 26-year-old man who was tragically shot and killed outside of his home in San Juan, Puerto Rico, chose to honor him how he lived — literally.

A family in mourning often shows grief in surprising ways. But the family of Fernando de Jesús Díaz Beato, a 26-year-old man who was tragically shot and killed outside of his home in San Juan, Puerto Rico, chose to honor him how he lived — literally.

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The family chose to honor Beato's vibrant life through services with the Marin Funeral Home in San Juan, a business known for its nontraditional funerals.

The family chose to honor Beato's vibrant life through services with the Marin Funeral Home in San Juan, a business known for its nontraditional funerals.

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The funeral home has been a pioneer in muerto parado, or "standing dead," services since 2008. That year it hosted its first nontraditional funeral. At the request of the family, it tethered the body of 24-year-old Ángel Luis "Pedrito" Pantojas, another murder victim in Puerto Rico, to the family's living room.

"When he died, the family told us they would like him to be standing up," Damaris Marin, the home's director, told BuzzFeed News. "We thought that it was a joke. Then his mom came to the funeral home and we realized it was serious."


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William Shatner Responds To Critics Over Missing Leonard Nimoy's Funeral

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“I feel really awful,” said the actor Saturday, who had charity work commitments. On Sunday, Shatner took to Twitter to defend his absence at Leonard Nimoy’s funeral.

Leonard Nimoy and William Shatner, pictured on Aug. 19, 2006.

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"I loved him like a brother. We will all miss his humor, his talent, and his capacity to love," Shatner said on Twitter.

Nimoy, famous for playing the Vulcan Mr. Spock, died Friday from end-stage chronic obstructive pulmonary disease at the age of 83.

"I am so humbled by the worldwide outpouring of love that has been displayed; words cannot express my feelings," Shatner wrote.

William Shatner, DeForest Kelley, and Leonard Nimoy in Star Trek.

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This Couple Loved Each Other So Much Their Family Bought A Double-Sized Coffin So They Could Hold Hands

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“They used to cry a lot if they ever had to spend time apart,” explained their daughter.

Victor and Elsie Bower were teenage sweethearts from Sheffield. They were married in 1954.

Victor and Elsie Bower were teenage sweethearts from Sheffield. They were married in 1954.

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They died last month, just nine days apart, after spending 65 years of their lives together.

They died last month, just nine days apart, after spending 65 years of their lives together.

Victor, 82, died of cancer on 8 February, after being diagnosed in 2009. Elsie, 80, had been in hospital with chronic obstructive pulmonary disease. She died on 17 February, from, her family said, a "broken heart".

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On Monday, they went to their rest in a double-sized coffin, still holding hands.

On Monday, they went to their rest in a double-sized coffin, still holding hands.

"They were always together. They used to cry a lot if they ever had to spend time apart," their daughter Sharon Bower, 54, told The Star in Sheffield ahead of the service at Grenoside Crematorium.

She added: "They lived together and died together, so it was only right they went together too."

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"To me it didn't seem right to have separate coffins when all Elsie wanted to be was by the side of Victor," said Michael Fogg, the funeral director.

"To me it didn't seem right to have separate coffins when all Elsie wanted to be was by the side of Victor," said Michael Fogg, the funeral director.

He added: "I thought, 'What can I do ... to support a couple that even death couldn't keep apart?'"

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"Ask A Mortician" Is The Best Thing On YouTube

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Exploding caskets, human taxidermy, and poop, oh my.

Caitlin Doughty is a mortician who wants to help you understand the process (and the business) of death.

Caitlin Doughty is a mortician who wants to help you understand the process (and the business) of death.

She's could say she's pretty into death. You know, professionally.

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She has a video series called "Ask a Mortician" that covers ~ALL THINGS DEATH.~

She has a video series called "Ask a Mortician" that covers ~ALL THINGS DEATH.~

There will be skulls. And also jokes.

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Her series covers a whole range of topics, from how to discuss death with an aging parent...

Her series covers a whole range of topics, from how to discuss death with an aging parent...

It's a heavy-ass topic, but she handles it with sensitivity, empathy, and very practical advice. And also floating props.

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...To how to provide a "good death" for a beloved pet.

...To how to provide a "good death" for a beloved pet.

While Caitlin admits that she feared talking about her Siamese cat's death and funeral could have a "forever alone vibe" to it, she felt it was important to discuss because "animals are part of your family." Which is THE GODDAMN TRUTH.

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Here’s What A Mortician Has To Say About The Future Of Death

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If you’re the kind of person whose late-night internet search history would sound bad if read aloud at a tribunal, you probably found Caitlin Doughty’s YouTube series Ask a Mortician by accident.

Whether you want to know if you can compost a dead body (yes), if you can send your friend off in a Viking funeral (illegal but fun), or if caskets explode from a build-up of putrefaction gas (oh, sure), you can just send your questions to Caitlin and she’ll answer them straight up, no bullshit.

I wanted to know about dying and the internet, DIY funerals, and how we do death differently now that we’re in the future.

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Are we doing death differently now in 2015 than we were 20 years ago?

Caitlin Doughty: Death is different in many ways. People tend to only recognise their immediate surroundings as in, like, “Oh, this is the way death has always been done so we have to do it this way.” But nothing about death now is what death was like before.

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“Before,” like, two decades ago?

CD: Before as in two decades ago, 50 years ago, 100 years ago. In every country, death culture and death ritual is constantly evolving. So when you think about what’s happening in the US and the UK in the last 20 years, there’s been a huge rise in cremation. In the US it was actually partly due to the AIDS epidemic, and Jessica Mitford in the '60s who came in and said that funeral directors were crooks, they’re taking you for a ride, you don’t need any of these things.

I love her book.

The American Way of Death: an exposé published in 1963 about the highly commercialised American funeral industry that’s actually way funnier than you think it’s gonna be.

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CD: Yeah, it’s very sassy. And it really brought about a huge rise in not only direct cremation — cheaper, no pomp, no ceremony — but also body donation, because people wanted to get around the funeral industry in some way. And people have now done that. They know that they can choose not to view the embalmed body and they don’t need to pay for any of the things the funeral directors provide — the fancy cortege, the fancy plumes down the street — they can just cremate the body, have a memorial service if they want, and that’s it.

So now we’ve got to peak industry avoidance, or peak ways-to-get-around-the-industry. And where the “natural death” or “death acceptance” movement comes in is saying: But do you feel like you’re missing something? Don’t you feel like you’re missing something about the rituals, or you’re missing something by the body disappearing and you never seeing it again? And a lot of people do feel that way.

So more people are choosing DIY funerals?

CD: It’s not like people are rushing out to take care of the dead body themselves, or they’re rushing out for natural burial, or they’re rushing out for alkaline hydrolysis machines. There’s not a flood, just because you don’t think about it until somebody dies. It’s not in the popular consciousness.

What the hell is alkaline hydrolysis?

CD: I definitely think it’s the next death technology. They’re billing it as water cremation, which is not really accurate because cremation is inherently flames, but they’re billing it as that because it’s a similar system. There’s a big metal receptacle that the body goes in, and really high-pressure, high-heat water — 160 degrees Celsius — and the base chemical lye go in together, and it’s almost like a flash decomposition. It breaks the body down to its basic elements, and what you get at the end is really similar to cremated remains: a white powdery substance.

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Is it better for the environment?

CD: Yes, because you’re not releasing carbon emissions, you’re not using a ton of natural gas to make it happen, and it’s certainly better than burial, where you’re sometimes chemically treating the body, and you have the wood for the casket, or the metal for the casket, and the concrete for the vaults, and you’re using up land. It’s only legal in eight states in the US, and not at all in the UK, which is bullshit and stupid.

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There’s a guy in Minnesota with an alkaline hydrolysis machine who asks people, “Which cremation do you want: Do you want it by flame or do you want it by water?” – and something like 80% choose water. I think it’s going to do well in the death landscape.

When is a natural burial (the kind where you go straight into a hole in the ground, not a cement box above ground) or a DIY funeral going to become our default setting?

CD: We’re playing the long game. In 20 years, people our age and people slightly older than us will have heard this discourse in culture and they’re gonna say, “But I’ve always just thought I wanted a green burial” or “I’ve always thought that I want my family to take care of my body” and it will seem a lot more natural to them because they’ve heard it for so long. That’s what I think the future is, but that might just be my own bias.

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What’s the process of DIY funeral? What do the family go through?

CD: You have the body at home for two days, three days, however long it takes for the family to sit with it and for it to feel done. You wash and dress the person yourself, and you observe the little changes in their body. Their eyes start to sink, you can feel them go to room temperature, you can feel the stiffening up and then the loosening, and you just know that the person you love isn’t there anymore. Then you take that shell of the person and you go ideally to a natural burial cemetery, or you go to a crematorium and you actually load the body into the machine.

What kind of feedback have you got from people who’ve done it?

CD: They’re not cool with the death – they’re not like, “Y’know, and then I just grieved over those three days and I never missed Jimmy again.” That’s not what happens. But I’ve never heard someone say, “Yeah, I took care of my own mother and it was really gross and uncomfortable and I wish I hadn’t done it.”

How do you even start to do a DIY funeral?

CD: The death midwife will come to the house and help figure out the logistical things like the best place to keep the body and how you’re going to move the body. They make sure they have all the things they need, like dry ice or diapers. They ask questions like how do they want the eyes and mouth closed — totally naturally, or do they want a little help?

What’s a death midwife?

CD: They’re women who come in, who are not in the funeral industry, and they help you take care of the dead body in your home outside of the funeral industry.

Why is it always women?

CD: It’s a much more interactive-with-the-body kind of funeral work. My personal theory is that it has to do with wanting control of the body, whether it’s control of your sexuality, whether it’s control of childbearing, or control of the dead body, we’ve had control wrested away from us of our own physical selves, and it’s almost like a feminist act to say, “No, I want control of all parts of life and death that have to do with the body,” so that’s where I think it comes from.

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This natural death movement isn’t a new idea; there was one in the ’70s. Was it very different to now? And why did it go away?

CD: It is a strangely largely forgotten phenomenon. I think it wasn’t so much the actual dead body as it was the process of dying — the power to die, the power to make health care decisions, the power to end life-saving medical intervention or food or whatever it was. To die on your own terms. But it was a period of what they called “death awareness” in the UK and US. Medically, people are back around it again, and they’re asking how far have we really come, and how good are we at dying the way we want to. Most people would say we aren’t good at dying the way we want to.

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Where does assisted suicide fit into this?

CD: I work with a group called Compassion & Choices in California. It’s attempting to get death with dignity legalised in California, the idea being that so goes California, so goes the rest of the US at least. That’s one of the most fascinating things to me — is how important control is to people and how few people actually take the pills or the liquid or whatever they are prescribed by the doctor, but they feel much better, they feel, just to have the option. So if you’re dying of stage 4 cancer but you have that stuff in your fridge, you know it’s there and you know that if this pain ever becomes blindingly unbearable you have a dignified out to take. When you have that kind of control and that security, you live longer. Mentally it’s so important for people to have that.

That’s another future death thing, in where we’re going with death in general, is towards more control. Taking control of our lives and death back from the government, from industries — from the medical industry, the food industry, the funeral industry — and taking it back to the family and the individual.

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Since we both live on it, I want to know how you think we should die on the internet. I worry about this a lot.

CD: I think it’s important that, just like you tell people you want done with your body, you tell people what you want done with your online life. Maybe you just want all your accounts deleted. That may not be the nicest thing to do, but you’re allowed to be an asshole.

Burn mine to the ground, please.

CD: I really love Terry Pratchett’s last tweets. I haven’t done it yet but I really do need to tell somebody who has my Twitter password, “If I die unexpectedly, here are three epic bons mots.”

Exactly. Otherwise it’s just going to be whatever you last said. Leonard Nimoy had a great last poetic tweet, but if it’s me, it’s probably going to be raging at Sainsbury's because they’re out of avocados or whatever.

CD: Right. They’re the kind of things that go viral if it was an interesting death or you’re an interesting person of some sort. If I were to die unexpectedly, I need something in place like, “She died doing what she loved: death” or, y’know, “All she needed to do to die doing what she loved was just die.” Something like that. I think it’s a good idea to have people ready for it. I have two people who have all of my passwords.

Already?

CD: Oh yeah, never too early. Treat your online affairs as part of your affairs that need to be in order — your bank, your internet bill — you need to have people who know what you want.

Here are Terry Pratchett’s final tweets:

And Leonard Nimoy’s:

And what is probably the closest approximation of what I will ultimately leave as my final tweet:

IN CLOSING: Listen to Caitlin, get your internet death together ASAP.

Caitlin Doughty’s New York Times best-selling memoir Smoke Gets in Your Eyes is now out in the UK in paperback. Follow her on Twitter.

China's Ministry Of Culture Is Cracking Down On "Funeral Strippers"

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A recent statement confirmed a “joint authorities crackdown”.

The Chinese Ministry of Culture today released a statement condemning the act of "striptease" at Chinese funerals, and has urged local authorities to crack down on the "illegal business activities... ruining the social atmosphere."

The Chinese Ministry of Culture today released a statement condemning the act of "striptease" at Chinese funerals, and has urged local authorities to crack down on the "illegal business activities... ruining the social atmosphere."

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"Funeral strippers" are hired in China to attract a larger audience, which is believed to bode well for the afterlife of the deceased.

"Funeral strippers" are hired in China to attract a larger audience, which is believed to bode well for the afterlife of the deceased.

One villager told the Wall Street Journal it was "to save face... Otherwise no one would come."

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The statement mentions two cases from rural areas of China — Handan City and Suqian City — with all "participants" in both cases penalized with either a hefty fine or time in "administrative detention."

The statement mentions two cases from rural areas of China — Handan City and Suqian City — with all "participants" in both cases penalized with either a hefty fine or time in "administrative detention."

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Basic Bitches Get Buried, So Turn Yourself Into A Dildo Or Diamond

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Because only basic bitches get buried.

1. Shove Your Ashes in a Dildo

1. Shove Your Ashes in a Dildo

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Get reincarnated as the dildo you already are by putting your ashes in a penis-sized tube.

Get reincarnated as the dildo you already are by putting your ashes in a penis-sized tube.

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The 21 Grams kit also comes with music and perfume that will ensure your scent lingers on.

The 21 Grams kit also comes with music and perfume that will ensure your scent lingers on.

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You'll be dead ready for some hot nasty ghost sex.

You'll be dead ready for some hot nasty ghost sex.

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The 21 Most Powerful Photos Of This Week

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FC Barcelona players celebrate with La Liga, Copa del Rey and Champions League trophies during their victory parade after winning the UEFA Champions League Final at the Camp Nou Stadium in Barcelona, Spain.

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A young Koala named Phantom is seen clinging to his mother Lizzy while she undergoes lung surgery. Lizzy was injured after she was hit by a car, although vets say that she is recovering well.

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People participate in the ninth annual tomato fight festival, known as "tomatina", in Sutamarchan, Colombia.

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Victor Espinoza reacts after crossing the finish line with American Pharoah to win the 147th running of the Belmont Stakes horse race at Belmont Park in Elmont, N.Y. American Pharoah is the first horse to win the Triple Crown since Affirmed won it in 1978.

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Bon-chan, a 19 year old male African spurred tortoise, is seen causing a stir while walking with his owner Hisao Mitani on a street in the town of Tsukishima in Tokyo. Bon-chan loves fruit and vegetables and is often offered carrot and cabbage pieces by cheering neighbors when he is out.

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Babies cry as they lie on a mattress in a street during 'El Colacho', the 'baby jumping festival' in the village of Castrillo de Murcia. Baby jumping (El Colacho) is a traditional Spanish practice dating back to 1620 that takes place annually to celebrate the Catholic feast of Corpus Christi. During the act - known as El Salto del Colacho (the devil's jump) or simply El Colacho - men dressed as the Devil jump over babies born in the last twelve months of the year who lie on mattresses in the street.

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A man, whose face is completely covered with tattoos, poses during the three-day annual tattoo festival in the coastal Israeli city of Tel Aviv. Some 50 tattoo artists, Israelis and foreigners, take part in the festival to show their skills.

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Cleveland Cavaliers forward LeBron James falls into a camera man on the sidelines during the second quarter of game four of the NBA Finals at Quicken Loans Arena. The Warriors won 103-82.

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German Chancellor Angela Merkel speaks with U.S. President Barack Obama at Schloss Elmau hotel near Garmisch-Partenkirchen, Germany, during the G-7 summit.

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Pope Francis meets Russian President Vladimir Putin on the occasion of a private audience at the Vatican.

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Young supporters of pro-Kurdish Peoples' Democratic Party hold Kurdish flags as they celebrate the results of the legislative election, in Diyarbakir, Turkey.

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Graffiti adorns mounds of rubble from the bombed buildings that continue to scar the landscape of Gaza City, Gaza. The devastation across Gaza can still be seen nearly one year on from the 2014 conflict between Israel and Palestinian militants. United Nations official figures said that the 50 day war left at least 2,189 Palestinians dead, including more than 1,486 civilians, and 11,000 injured. 67 Israeli soldiers and six civilians were killed.

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People carry the body of a man they uncovered from under the rubble of houses destroyed by Saudi airstrikes in the old city of Sanaa, Yemen.

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A Ukrainian firefighter works to extinguish a fire at a fuel depot in the village of Kryachki, some 30 km southwest from Kiev. Ukraine urgently evacuated hundreds of residents from the site of a series of fuel depot blasts near Kiev that set off a ferocious fire and left several people missing and at least one confirmed dead.

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Buffalos escape a fire, which is spreading on a patch of land by the Yamuna river, on a hot summer day in New Delhi, India.

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A protester throws a petrol bomb towards the police during a march, demanding more participation in the education reform discussions, in Santiago, Chile. Teachers began on June 1 an indefinite strike in protest against the newest education reforms that are being discussed in Congress and promoted by Chile's President Michelle Bachelet's government.

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A policeman lies on the ground during a clash with students demonstrating to demand changes in the education system, in Santiago, Chile.

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A Lebanese army vehicle fires a TOW-II missile in the village of Taybeh, near Baalbek, eastern Lebanon. The Lebanese army has conducted a live-fire demonstration of advanced missiles supplied by the United States to help combat Islamic extremists along the country's volatile border with Syria.

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Vice President Joe Biden, accompanied by his family, holds his hand over his heart as he watches an honor guard carry a casket containing the remains of his son, former Delaware Attorney General Beau Biden.

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Zahra Mahmoud, age 11, grieves on her father's coffin during the funeral procession of 15 militia members of a Shiite group, Asaib Ahl al-Haq, or League of the Righteous, who were killed in Beiji from fighting with Islamic State militants south of Baghdad, Iraq.

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A seagull is silhouetted on the shoreline at sunset in La Serena, Coquimbo, Chile.

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The President Sang "Amazing Grace" And America Got Saved

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The president stunned the nation by singing “Amazing Grace” at the funeral of slain Charleston pastor Rev. Clementa Pinckney.

Barack Obama, 44th president of the United States of America, had a helluva day on Friday.

Barack Obama, 44th president of the United States of America, had a helluva day on Friday.

He began with a speech at the White House, applauding the #SCOTUS decision to legalize same-sex marriage.

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But after that momentous occasion, Obama went to Charleston, South Carolina, to eulogize Rev. Clementa Pinckney, one of the nine victims of a mass shooting at Mother Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church.

But after that momentous occasion, Obama went to Charleston, South Carolina, to eulogize Rev. Clementa Pinckney, one of the nine victims of a mass shooting at Mother Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church.

The funeral, held at TD Arena, drew thousands of mourners, and was broadcast live by several news outlets. The other victims were: Cynthia Hurd; Susie Jackson; Ethel Lance; Rev. DePayne Middleton-Doctor; Tywanza Sanders; Rev. Daniel Simmons Sr.; Rev. Sharonda Singleton; Myra Thompson. In reverence, Obama made sure to say their names.

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Obama addressed gun violence, discrimination, and the ugly history of the Confederate flag. He already had the church enraptured, but that was just the tip of the iceberg.

There was... a pause. A pregnant, heavy pause. And then President Barack Obama began to sing the hymn "Amazing Grace."

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This Legendary Cat Worked As A Stationmaster For Eight Years

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RIP Tama.

After eight years in the position of stationmaster at the Kishi Railway Station in Japan, Tama the cat was farewelled in a beautiful funeral on Sunday. She was 16.

After eight years in the position of stationmaster at the Kishi Railway Station in Japan, Tama the cat was farewelled in a beautiful funeral on Sunday. She was 16.

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Prior to her employment, Tama lived near Kishi Station as a stray cat, and got to know and was eventually adopted by neighbourhood grocer Toshiko Koyama.

In 2006, Koyama was named stationmaster after the Wakayama Electric Railway selected employees from nearby businesses to run its stations in a cost-cutting measure. The next year, Tama usurped her owner to take on the position.

As stationmaster, Tama greeted passengers and established a successful cafe and souvenir store in her name. She is credited with bringing in a significant amount of revenue for the railway after visitors flocked to see her.

She was paid in cat food.

Tama died of heart failure earlier this month, and was farewelled at a ceremony on Sunday attended by 3,000 co-workers, friends, and fans.

Tama died of heart failure earlier this month, and was farewelled at a ceremony on Sunday attended by 3,000 co-workers, friends, and fans.

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The president of the Wakayama Electric Railway, Mitsunobu Kojima, spoke at the funeral, thanking Tama for her achievements.

The president of the Wakayama Electric Railway, Mitsunobu Kojima, spoke at the funeral, thanking Tama for her achievements.

Tama pictured with Mitsunobu Kojima in 2010.

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What Should Happen With Your Dead Body?

I Got Drunk With The Funeral Industry To Find Out What Happens When We Die

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We don't like to think about the practicalities of death. And yet, they are unavoidable. I know that after I’ve finished slowly killing myself with beer and hummus, someone is going to have to deal with my dead body.

They’ll probably like me much better if I come up with some vague plan before I go. So I decided to spend a weekend in the perfect place to do that: Britain's leading event for the funeral industry, an hour away from London by train.

It's called the Ideal Death Show.

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Within minutes of arriving at the Ideal Death Show welcome drinks, people started telling me death-based statistics. A lot of death-based statistics. I was told that we personally organise 2.4 funerals per our own lifetime, but that they happen decades apart so each time we go in knowing nothing; the landscape of death is always changing. I was told there is no other consumer experience on earth like buying a funeral: 93% of people will drop £5,000 in the first funeral directors’ joint they walk into because no one thinks about this stuff until a time when they don’t want to think about this stuff.

I was told that within three years of being buried in a cemetery you will have – at most – two visitors a year. Within 70 years you will be forgotten, just another slab of concrete in a forest of swiftly dilapidating concrete. I was told that 100% of undertakers hate both spiral staircases and Andrea Bocelli. I was told that fat women over the age of 40 decompose faster than any other demographic. I was told that one in 300 bodies putrefies early, and that morgue fridges aren’t made to last forever.

And neither are we.

Everyone at the Ideal Death Show has accepted this – and yet you would struggle to find a happier group of people than this one, standing around in a repurposed Winchester student union wondering if the line-cleaner that we can all taste in the beer is going to kill us all.

The Ideal Death Show initially started out in 2011, not as an industry shindig, but as a Six Feet Under fan convention in Bournemouth. It was run by a guy called Brian Jenner, who is a professional speechwriter and not remotely connected to the funeral industry except for this one weird thing. That first weekend four years ago, the flyer – using the Series 2 DVD cover image of the single tree against a blue sky – boasted talks from Andrew McKie, former obituary editor of the Daily Telegraph; Charles Cowling, founder of the Good Funeral Guide; and an embalmer called Sheila Dicks.

When everyone turned up for the Friday night welcome wake, it was clear that what Jenner had accidentally organised was an industry meeting for people who worked with the dead; undertakers on a busman’s holiday, stood around a cardboard coffin in a room full of lilies.

The next year he stripped away the HBO pretext and just made it that: a bunch of people talking about death, once a year, with other people who know about death. They needed it – death can literally be a lonely business.

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One thing I found: It’s hard to pack for the Ideal Death Show when all of your outfits are appropriate. Funerals are the only invitation I’m ever sartorially equipped for and this was a whole conference about funerals and dying. My bag was massive. And full of black.

Gathered in the bar were undertakers, celebrants, shroud manufacturers, coffin-makers (coffin-makers and shroud manufacturers will all comment on how tall and wide you are, I learned), embalmers, mortuary workers, palliative care nurses (one nurse tells me we’re all going to die of dementia, according to the current trend among the old and the number of Do Not Resuscitate forms she fills out on a daily basis), death midwives, gravediggers, stonemasons, crematory assistants, and natural burial ground owners. If the line-cleaner in the beer did kill us all, there would be no one left to deal with the bodies or, more pressingly, complain about the beer on BuzzFeed.com.

It was one of the weirder times a man has told me to “smile, it might never happen.”

The Curve bespoke coffins.

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If you’re single and treating a weekend with a bunch of morticians as a niche IRL Tinder, the thing you notice at the Ideal Death Show is that almost everyone here is female. The funeral industry is changing; there are no gaunt cartoon undertakers here for you (OK, me) to date, which is disappointing because everyone was smiling while talking about corpse disposal and where flies lay their eggs on dead people. A+ date chat imo.

(FYI, flies go straight up the nose, so keep your windows shut if you plan on keeping the body at home for a week.)

A nurse/former mortuary worker whose job it was to check the fridges every morning to see if the 1 in 300 bodies that putrefies early has putrefied early told me this female majority is part of the “vanguard of death”; the more progressive areas of the funeral industry are 95% women.

Traditionally, pre-death was a female domain – the hospices, the nurses, the physical and emotional care – while post-death was a man’s trade, with all the carpentry, digging, burning, hauling, slicing, and pumping of heinous chemicals into arteries and veins that a traditional funeral entailed. If you die now, it’s likely a woman is going to direct your funeral, and there are far more options than just coffin plus burial or cremation.

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Here’s another thing I was told at dinner, which is a pizza from Zizzi that we had to walk through an actual graveyard in the dark to get to: Networking in the funeral industry is not like networking in the media. To a journalist, schmoozing means talking to editors and publishers when they’re drunk enough to offer you work, while in the funeral industry schmoozing means talking to hospices and care homes, circling the old and dying like vultures. Sounds crass, sure – but someone has to think about it, and frankly you probably won’t until someone dies.

On the way back from Zizzi we almost got trapped in the graveyard.

In the morning, after a full English breakfast and a chat about what code words to use when you’re burying someone everyone thought was twat (“make use of silence and pauses for thought,” says a celebrant) and how to mask a squeaky crematorium curtain with “ashes to ashes chat”, I got a lift to the show with Charles from the Good Funeral Guide and the nurse who gave me a good reason not to become obese in the next 10 years. She was just excited to get a lift in a car that wasn't not a hearse for once.

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At the show were hand-woven willow coffins and miniature Viking boats to put ashes in and push out to sea, bespoke wooden coffins with the rough bark edges still on, societies of celebrants, funeral singers standing beside CD players playing their own CDs, interfaith ministers who would later argue about faith by a yurt and have to be separated, and startup companies who deal with the various aspects of death on the internet — online memorials, funeral planning, wills, and encrypted instructions for what to do with your terrible internet history when you die.

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There were novelty hearses in the style of New York taxis or Triumph motorcycles with a side-car coffin compartment, humanists handing out pens saying there is no God, and various containers to put your ashes in including glass candleholders that make a centrepiece out of the bone grit.

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There was even a spin-off ice bucket challenge – the "kicking the bucket challenge" with all donations going to the Natural Death Centre charity.

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All throughout the Death Show was the sound of funereal wailing on a tinny CD player, punctuated by the metallic thud of punters kicking a bucket against a blackboard list of things people want to do before they die. My favourite was “spread the banter”.

Like, what does that mean?

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In the back corner of the room with a bunch of mannequins wrapped in fabric was shroudmaker Gordon Tulley and his bowl of Bereave Mints. He told me that some shrouds are only fit for burial, not cremation, and glossed over this so fast that I had to know why. He said it’s to do with the flashback: The cremation machine is set to 750-800°C, and as you push the shrouded body in, any lingering vapour from a treated material is likely to throw flames out the door and burn the crematorium worker’s eyebrows off.

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He showed me the plank of wood that gets inserted into a pocket in the back of every shroud to give the body some rigidity, “so nobody gets a saggy bum feeling and looks unsightly”. He said it makes it easier to lower the body into a grave, which is something that’s quite hard to do neatly. Basically, all that separates your shrouded loved one from a body in a bag thrown in a hole is a 80cm x 15cm bit of wood that comes with the shroud of your choosing.

As an afterthought, Gordon suggested shrouding the body immediately before burial, instead of doing it two weeks beforehand like some people would like to. “That way there’s no leakage,” he said, and very seriously added, “You might not know what their last meal was.”

This body was in the way of someone's coffin stall and had to be moved:

There was a shrouding demonstration in the park.

Anyone not connected to the Ideal Death Show thought it was a real funeral and that Dawn, the shroud volunteer, was dead.

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The climax of the Ideal Death Show was a gala dinner with an award ceremony for work in the death business.

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The trophies were Anubis statues in cardboard coffins sponsored by an eco-friendly coffin company called Ecoffins. I asked Brian, the organiser, how you judge who the Gravedigger of the Year is but he said it’s a trade secret.

I asked if they had a special shovel.

That is also classified information.

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Each year the celebrity host is someone tenuously linked to dead people. Pam St. Clement hosted one year on the basis that her character, Pat Butcher, died of pancreatic cancer on EastEnders. This year it’s Ian Lavender, Private Pike from Dad’s Army, chosen by virtue of being one of the last cast members who’s not dead yet, and being a regular at funerals what with all of his friends on the show dying. Also because “someone like Julian Clary costs £14,000.”

Given everyone in the park thought this was a real funeral procession...

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Here’s the thing I learned about people who have been to a lot of funerals: Funeral people have practised at hundreds of wakes and know how to drink. I was fucked. I was so drunk that when the fire alarm sounded at 2:30am and I stood around outside the student accommodation with all the undertakers and funereal florists and embalmers in pajamas, I lost my bra.

Shut up.

The best photo of a BuzzFeed writer on a motorcycle hearse ever taken by a vicar.

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Breakfast was like Cluedo. Everyone had a theory about who pressed the alarm, but no one knew for sure. “It was probably a vicar,” said a celebrant. “It’s always a vicar.” A coffin-maker made some ham sandwiches for the road and wrapped them in a napkin. “Look, I’m shrouding my ham sandwiches,” he said. He thought it was a vicar too.

I came home with a pocket full of undertakers’ business cards and a souvenir mug. After three days of hanging out with people in the death industry I still don’t know what I want to do with my corpse – but I do know that if these are the people who are going to be looking after me, it’s a far less terrifying thing to die.

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A Bunch Of Millennials Lay In A Coffin And Talked About Their Ideal Funeral

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“I would like to be buried in, like, a Tommy Bahama shirt and look like the chillest dude that ever lived on this Earth.”

Elite Daily gathered a bunch of millennials to lay in a coffin and think about the purpose of life.

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It was a little freaky how comfortable the coffin was.

It was a little freaky how comfortable the coffin was.

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And also, just, like, confronting your own mortality is pretty scary.

And also, just, like, confronting your own mortality is pretty scary.

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But it's also a great Instagram opportunity.

But it's also a great Instagram opportunity.

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